Saying Goodbye, See You Later or See you at any excuse for an end of the year party1 Comment
Since I finished the bulk of all my essays before my friend arrived, the whole time she was here I felt extremely relaxed and was really happy to spend time with her. The day she arrived I met her at Liverpool St. Station and from there we walked to Spitalfields market (which was empty since it was a weekday) and I bought a few books for £1 each. We walked around Brick Lane for a bit before hopping on the tube and getting off at St. James Park where we did the walk from Buckingham Palace, past Big Ben along South Bank. We stopped at the book stalls underneath the one bridge and browsed there but it was too chilly and so we walked further on to the Tate Modern. I had just been there a month ago for a class trip but my friend, Monica, had never been before, or to London for that matter. Since she has worked in a museum before she pointed out things, like the layout of the artwork in the rooms, to me that I wouldn’t have thought of on my own. Cris met us there after work and after the museum we headed up to St. Paul’s and then took the tube to Southgate and Cris’ flat. We ate dinner there and chilled out for a bit, mainly because Monica had been up since 4am.
The next day Monica and I went to Leicester Square, was yet again tempted by all the bookstores on Charing Cross Rd. and then finally to the National Gallery to see the exhibition on Renoir landscapes. After that we scouted out the rest of the museum with Monica’s Art History and Religion knowledge. It was getting late and we planned to go out that night so we walked over to Piccadilly Circus, stopping off at Lillywhites so Monica could get a new pair of sneakers that she was in desperate need of! (We compared the condition of our beat up shoes and hers won!) They were on sale for £12 and I liked them so I bought a pair too. We quickly got ready at my flat only to take a long time having our pasta, drinking wine and talking. By the time we got to Cris flat (he was the only one I could convince to come out with us, though we made a bargain that I’d help edit his essay due on that monday) it was pretty late but we caught one of the last tubes to tottenham court rd and found the club we were looking for- The Roxy. It was only £3 to get in, there were good drink deals and a really good selection of music (some of which I hadn’t heard in a long time, like The Offspring!). So Teenage Kicks @The Roxy is being added to our indie night calendar!
The next day Monica and I decided to get up at a leisurely pace since we got back late the night before but we ended up getting up earlier than the day before, so we went to Camden Market. I love showing people Camden Market, because Monica kept saying “is this is?” and I would say “no, there’s more”. On this particular day however we were both weren’t our usual money controlling selves. We both bought zipper bags because it was a good deal, she bought some tea, I bought a journal and a belt for £1. But we should have expected that, you can never go to a market “just to look”. After that we returned once more to Cris and Damon’s flat, or should I say the stressed out study flat. Petros was there helping Damon study. They all graciously took time out of their studying (well, I didn’t really have to twist their arm) and the five of us walked to ASDA and returned home to make dinner. We ate our quesadillas in their living room where Damon had lit lots of little candles. It was the first time in a long time that their flat had that many people in it! It was a nice little dinner while it lasted, but then Damon and Cris had to get back to work. Monica left that night to catch the bus to the airport for her early morning flight and had a few adventures on the way to round off her entire trip. When she left I couldn’t believe that 3days had gone by already.
The day of deadlines was a major relief to everyone. Suddenly you saw people called your friends, that you hadn’t seen in weeks. Cris, Damon and I met some of Damon’s friends at Wetherspoons after 5pm. Then Cris and I pub hopped over to The Goat to meet Evan and Bertan joined us. The atmosphere was light and we talked about TV shows (mainly current American ones like Lost and Heros) and sports. After that we headed to Tesco and ran into a bunch of our other friends who were on their way to the party at Evan’s flat. We stocked up on supplies and then headed over to Evan’s flat and ran into the rest of our crew. It was great to finally see everyone all together especially since the uni bar has been closed for a few weeks and that was our main meeting place.
The next day Cris, Evan, Bertan and I hung out a bit since Evan was leaving for the States the next day. Later on a couple more of our friends joined us and we had dinner at Wetherspoons (one leaving for the states the day after, one staying; it’s hard to keep track of who’s leaving when, for how long and if they will ever be back). The next day I had to run around North London (and get lost, but see the . . . uh. . . sights?) to find Middlesex’s New Southgate administrative campus. Damon is working there for the summer but as luck would have it he doesn’t have a phone, and just as I was about to give up I found the place! And this was on the hottest day in London! (It’s now currently freezing and raining.) After that I headed back to Ponders End to make and eat dinner with Raggy who was leaving for Rome the next day to visit her sister and go to a concert. Thursday was The Twins’ Unbirthday. Two of my friends have the same birthday, different year, but in August when no one will be around to celebrate so they decided to have a party anyway. They went all out and bought balloons and card games for four year olds which we somehow managed to mess up because someone (I won’t name names) didn’t read the directions properly. It was pretty fun and a chance to see the ever dwindling group again.
Friday, Cris, Damon and I went to see Rodrigo y Gabriela. They’re from Mexico and play spanish guitar and are pretty amazing. (http://www.rodgab.com/) Afterwards Damon and I were still up for some fun (Cris went home to work on his website) and so we went to Club NME (New Musical Express, a music magazine) at KOKO’s, where we definitely didn’t feel hip enough compared to the NME kids. We had a good night anyway, KOKO’s is an amazing venue, it’s this huge, old elaborate theatre now used as a venue/indie club. The next night I dragged the boys plus Bertan and Max to see the film, Joe Strummer: The Future is Unwritten. It was really good; even if you weren’t that big of fan a lot of the stories about Joe or things he himself said were pretty funny and it didn’t focus too much on just his career in The Clash.
Yesterday I had breakfast with a New Paltz friend and we talked about going back home and how strange that will be. It will be really weird to live with my parents again, after being used to living in my own flat and cooking all my own meals. What will be even weirder is that when I go back to the U.S. I won’t be able to drink. Not that this has a major impact on my life or is a major need, but it’ll be strange. Here, I’m used to being able to stroll into a pub, bar, club with no problem. I’m used to meeting a friend for a drink and a long conversation or a great indie night out (yeah and no indie nights either), it will just be strange to suddenly be dubbed too young to do any of these things. Money-wise, as everyone says, the States will feel like everything is half off. There will be no more curfew with the tube and night buses to get home, but there will also be no more incredible markets, no indie nights, no trashy free LondonLite or LondonPaper newspapers on the tube, no tiny fridges and for the most part healthier, fresher outlook on eating. And no erratic weather either! (its changed from sunny to rainy twice since I’ve written this!)
Anyway, there’s yet another birthday party tonight though many of the group are gone. I’ll be leaving soon as well though it certainly doesn’t feel like it. Part of me does want to go home, especially since here those who are staying have already started summer jobs and I need to find one as well, but part of me wonders if the English ever truly get a proper summer!


